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性情男女关于处女膜的5大争辩

文章分类:性爱手册   作者:www.4830.com   来源:中国网址大全   时间:2013-1-10 1:13:37   人气:788   分享到QQ空间   收藏到QQ书签   推荐给朋友

论坛中有网友坚称,娶老婆就一定要是处女:“现在不是说要一夫一妻制么?如果女的不是处女了,对于爱他的男人是不公平的。爱他的人心里也会不好受……谁能忍受自己深爱着的女人,曾经光着身子站在另一个男人面前啊?”
 
更有网友抛出激烈论调:“我要是结婚的时候发现老婆不是处女,我就把她给杀了……”
 
“男人即使对不是处女的老婆好,但他心里总还是有阴影的,毕竟一想起自己的老婆以前和别的男人上床的情景,心里肯定不是滋味。女人们你们要理解一下,男人为什么这么在乎你是不是处女。 ”“如果你不是处女!你心里就不会有一点阴影吗!我是个男人!就算是真的表面不会说,心里也会永远不快乐!难道你希望你真爱的人一辈子都生活在阴影之中吗? ”
 
对这些有着强烈的处女情结的男人来说,女性朋友应该怎么办呢?我们应该怎么对付男人的这些处女情结呢?
 
女网友反击,如果真爱只是为了那层处女膜,那绝对是男人的悲哀。 “我真不知道,这些男的是怎么想的。他们在没有结婚的时候,会要求和女友有性行为。可还要求自己的老婆是处女。那你是吗?如果你不是,你又有什么权利要求别人。女人的那层膜对你们来说就那么重要吗。”
 
“讲究贞操是对的,可也不能太过分啊,试问处女的贞操怎么会亵渎,还不是有那么些个男人造成的吗?为何不追究男人的责任呢?又为何不计较男人的非处男呢?社会的不平等啊!几千年的封建传统思想就是欺负女人的!”
 
“有几个男人愿意在得到那个女人之前,听那个女人讲自己的第一次给了另外一个男人呢?知道善意的谎言吗?没人知道的历史就是清白的。男人有过去,女人也有,所以没必要在乎过去,现在和将来好就可以了。成熟的人不问过去,聪明的人不问现在,豁达的人不问未来。”
 
还有男性网友一针见血:“男人嘛,见过处女就行了,我不在乎老婆是不是处女,在床笫之中有真情,有激情,能做到默默地配合,那是处女和妓女都不能做到的事。给你个处女老婆,是个性冷淡的那才叫惨无人道。别忘了,大多数的男人都是早泄的,大多数女人也是个冷盘子,男女之间也要讲究匹配,匹配不当,婚姻就不幸。那些古董型的最好找个古董型的,思想意识也是很重要的。”
 
男性网友参言:“我是一个男人,我认为更在乎的应是女人的未来,而不是她是不是处女,不是处女也是那些无耻的男人造成的,本身对于女人都已经是很大的创伤和不公了,不要把责任都让女人来扛。受过创伤的女人应该是最懂得怎么珍惜感情的人。”
 
处女膜修补术满足男人虚荣
 
针对很多男性网友的“处女情节”,女性网友反驳:“姐妹们!那些愚昧的男人要的不是女人的真心,而是一层膜!那么,我们就给他们一层膜!300块(还可以讲价)大多数美容院都可以再造处女膜!我们联合起来,让那些自私、可恶的男人傻一辈子吧!给他们膜后,我们还可以给他们带绿帽子,他们还会以为我们很忠贞呢,哈哈哈哈哈……”
 
“找吧找吧,去找你们心中的纯情处女吧!不过要小心了,小心你找的不过是个做了处女膜修补术的冒牌货,这种手术专门针对你们男人而存在,这真是你们男人的悲哀。”
 
少有男性站在女性一边,“我也是现时代的男人,作为男人谁不希望自己老婆是处女呢?纵观现实社会,有几个在新婚之夜是处女呢?都是社会风气惹的祸。所以作为男人不要虚伪,不要自私!”
 
洁身自爱换取美好婚姻
 
中国有近9成的男性具有处女情节这个事实,是没有办法在短时期内改变的。要求妻子是处女,这是中国传统文化所要求的,必须承认这种观点在中国的普及和不可动摇。
 
处女情结不能完全用对错来加以判断,你说它对,但现代社会随着女性思想上的解放,越来越多的非处女出现成为不能回避的事实,如果再用老观念去束缚显然不太现实;另外,有很多女性是由于运动等非主观原因而失去处女身的,用这种黑白分明的标准来判断这类女性,也显失公平;
 
你说它不对,中国千年来的传统道德观念,对婚前性行为的批判肯定是正确的,这在中国的大环境下无可厚非。所以这两种极端的观点都不完全正确,这也是为什么非处女问题争论如此激烈的原因所在。
 
既然如今中国男人的处女情结没有办法改变,那就要求女性自尊、自强,否则面对近9成具有处女情结的男人,婚前有性经验的女性就只能在剩下的10%的男性中寻找结婚对象,这让自己的求偶面变得很狭窄,是对自己的不公平,不如洁身自爱,换取美好的婚姻生活。

The forum the netizen insists, to marry a wife must be a virgin: "now is said to be monogamous? If the woman is not a virgin, for the man who loves him is unfair. Love in his heart will be painful ... ... Who can stand his deep love for woman, once standing naked in front of another man? "

More the netizen throws fierce argument: " if I got married to find his wife is not a virgin, I'll kill her ... ... "

" Even if a man is not a virgin wife of good, but his heart is a shadow, after all of his former wife and another man go to bed scene, was certainly not the taste. Women, you have to understand me, why men care so much about you. Is it right?. " " If you are not a virgin! You will not have a shadow! I am a man! Even if is really the surface does not say, the heart will not happy! Did you hope you love the lives of people living in the shadows? "

These have a strong maiden complex man, female friends, how should do? How should we deal with the man of the virgin complex?

Female netizen counterattack, if true love just to the hymen, that is definitely the man of sorrow. " I really don't know, the man was trying to do. They are not married, would require and his girlfriend having sex. Can also ask their wife is a virgin. Are you? If you do not, you have the right to ask others. The woman that tier of films for you is so important. "

" Pay attention to chastity is right, but it is not too much to ask ah, virgin chastity how profane, isn't there a man made of? Why not for man's responsibility? Why do not care about man's not a virgin? Social inequalities! Thousands of years of feudal ideology is the bully a woman! "

" There are a few men are willing to get the woman before, listen to the woman about his first time to another man? Know a lie? No one knows the history is innocent. Man has in the past, women also, so there is no need to care about the past, present and future can be better. The mature never ask the past, the wise never ask the present, open-minded never ask the future. "

There are men netizens pierce to the heart of the matter: " man, seen the virgin on the line, I don't care what wife is it right? The virgin, the sheets are love, passion, can do it silently, it is a virgin and a whore can do. Give you a virgin wife, personality is cold it is be brutal and inhuman. Don't forget, most men are premature ejaculation, most women is a cold plate, between men and women also should pay attention to match, match undeserved, marriage is unhappy. Those antique 's best to find an antique model, ideology is also very important. "

Male friends and said: "I am a man, I think more about the future should be the woman, but she is it right? The virgin, is not a virgin but also those shameless men killed, itself for a woman was a huge trauma and unfair, don't take responsibility for women to carry it. The hurt the woman should be the most know how to cherish the feelings of the people. "

Hymen repair to meet the man of vanity

For many men the " virgin ", female netizen retort: "sisters! The foolish man is not a woman's heart, but a film! Then, we'll give them a layer of film! Block 300 ( you can also bargain ) most beauty salons can hymen reconstruction! We combine, let those selfish, hateful man a fool for a lifetime! Give them after the film, we can also take them a cuckold, they will think we are faithful, ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ... ... "

" Find it to find it, you find your heart pure virgin! But be careful, be careful what you looking for is just a do the hymen repair faker, this operation aimed specifically at your man exists, it is your man of sorrow. "

There are few men standing on the female side, " I was the man, as a man who does not want his wife was a virgin? In reality, there are several in the wedding night is a virgin? Are social climate disaster. So as a man not hypocrisy, don't be selfish! "

Guard for a happy marriage

China has nearly 9 into a male with a virgin plot of this fact, there is no way in a short period of time to change. Wife is a virgin, which is the Chinese traditional culture required, must admit this viewpoint in China's popularity and unshakable.

The virgin complex is not completely right and wrong to try to judge, you say it right, but modern society with a female emancipation of the mind, more and more a virgin become cannot evasive fact, if use the old idea to manacle apparently unrealistic; in addition, there are a lot of women from the movement of the subjective reason and lose virginity, no confusion with the standard to judge the type of women, but also obviously unfair;

You said it right, China for thousands of years of traditional morality, to premarital sex criticism must be correct, which in China under the environment of no ground for blame. So the two extreme views are not entirely correct, this is why the non virgin debate why so fierce.

Now that a Chinese man virgin complex there is no way to change, then the female self-esteem, self-reliance, or else face nearly 9 to have the virgin complex man, premarital sexual experience in female only in the remaining 10% men for marriage, which makes their courtship has become very narrow, is for their unfair as a clean,, in exchange for a good marriage.

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